Last week I asked Lifehacker readers to share the little things that go a long way in the bedroom. I’m not talking about wild feats of flexibility or barrier breaking new kinks—I wanted to hear your wisdom when it comes to talking dirty without feeling awkwardthe power of a well-placed pillow, or the simple flexibility that comes with doing stretches beforehand. After all, as shown in this Reddit threadthe best sex tips often come down to seemingly small, low-effort hacks.
For this crowdsourcing to work, I officially gave each and every one of you the benefit of the doubt that you’re a god in bed. And now, I feel vindicated for taking this leap of faith (no offense), because thereor guys delivered. Also, many of you don’t believe in the concept of “TMI.” I inred-over your sex tips big and small, filtering out the ones that were questionable or overtly unethical. (No, I will not endorse the “hack” of “getting a mistress.”)
The first step to improving your sex life is to admit that there’s room for improvement. Try to reflect: Is it time to spice things up? Overcome some communication hurdles? Gain some confidence, ditch your hangups, and, well, fuck around? Without further ado, here are the the best sex tips submitted by Lifehacker’s own insightful readers.